Here are some ideas to ponder as you search for, and eventually set-up, your new house or apartment ...

Location, location, location. Besides price, location is a major consideration when looking for a new house or apartment. Choosing somewhere close to your children's school or co-parent's house will help reduce the amount of time you spend traveling back and forth.

Number of rooms. Ideally, your kids will have a room of their own — individually or to share. You need to make sure you have somewhere for YOU to go when the kids go to bed. I remember the first night in my new one-bedroom apartment ("the closet" as I now refer to it). I had my daughter in my bed, and my son on the pull-out couch. After the goodnight stories and "lights out", I realized the only place I had left to read, without disturbing one of the kids, was the bathroom! Not good.

Safety first. Related to the point above, ensure the neighbourhood you are moving into is safe. This is especially important if you are unfamiliar with the area. Consider visiting the location both during the day and at night. Talk to local businesses or neighbours — ask around. You can also contact the local police department, and make inquiries. Better to be safe than sorry. After all, you want to feel safe when you and your kids go outside to play, or for a walk.

Park, playgrounds & resources. Check out the surrounding neighbourhoods for parks, playgrounds, and green spaces where you can go to play. How close is the nearest public swimming pool or recreation centre? Are you within walking distance to the local library?

Moving In & Setting Up:

Furniture fun. If you are in the market for new furniture, bring your kids along and let them help you pick it out. It will let them know their opinions are important, and give them a sense of ownership in your new home. IKEA is full of very reasonable items for every room of your new place. If your budget is a little tighter, consider Value Village or Goodwill outlet stores. You can pick up gently-used furniture at VERY good prices.

Pull-out couch. These can be a little more expensive, but are invaluable if space is tight, or you need a place for visitors. You living room can pull double-duty as your bedroom during the first year, if need be.

Dollar Store. Check out your local "Dollar Store". The quality of the merchandise these stores carry might surprise you! These are great places to pick up all the little stuff for your place: plates, cutlery, kitchen utensils, candles, light bulbs, flashlight, general hardware, and more. While you're there, be sure to let the kids pick out a new colouring book, or game (only $1.00!)